(One of my favorite zen tales, I was looking back through this blog (fixing links, now that I learned how to do that) and realized I hadn’t posted this story. Many may have heard of this story, I am sure some have not but read into the moral and food for thought. A valuable lesson that I tell often, when someone says, “Tell me a story.”)
Two Buddhist Monks were on a journey, one was a senior monk, the other a junior monk. During their journey they approached a raging river and on the river bank stood a young lady. She was clearly concerned about how she would get to the other side of the river without drowning.
The junior monk walked straight past her without giving it a thought and he crossed the river. The senior monk picked up the woman and carried her across the river. He placed her down, they parted ways with the woman and on they went with their journey.
As the journey went on, the senior monk could see some concern on the junior monk’s mind, he asked what was wrong.
The junior monk replied, “how could you carry her like that? You know we can’t touch women, it’s against our way of life”.
The senior monk answered, “I left the woman at the rivers edge a long way back, why are you still carrying her?”
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(moral; The senior monk had broken rules but for good reason. Once the purpose was fulfilled he put her down and continued on. He never gave it a further thought. The junior monk however did not touch the woman but he had brought up the actions of the senior monk when it was an action of the past. Therefore the junior monk was carrying the burden of what the senior monk had done as emotional baggage.
We have little use for the past except for the purpose of learning from our experiences, good and bad. Just like in the Buddhist monk story, we need to let go of any burden the past may place on us. It’s happened, it’s over, it cannot be changed, we can only move forward and create a compelling future.)
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food for thought
remember this story that I wrote on burdens…burdens weigh more, the more you carry them, like a bucket of water~
Being noticed can be a burden. Jesus got himself crucified because he got himself noticed. So I disappear a lot.
Bob Dylan
Books support us in our solitude and keep us from being a burden to ourselves.
Jeremy Collier
Bowed by the weight of centuries he leans upon his hoe and gazes on the ground, the emptiness of ages in his face, and on his back the burden of the world.
Edwin Markham
have an insightful day
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October 26, 2011 at 8:34 am
Janece
Loved this. Reminds me of some of my favorite Bible Stories – Jesus was forever breaking the Religious Rules to do the right thing 🙂
October 26, 2011 at 9:10 am
signature103
One of my favourites.
But one must ask: why am I still carrying it?
October 26, 2011 at 9:51 am
serenitywriter
I just read this koan in a y/a fiction – and I love it. I see at it as a reminder for anyone, to look at themselves closer when something pushes their button. Instead of steaming mad at someone else for doing/not doing any particular thing, look inward, discover why, see if you can let it go. They are only burdening themselves.
As to the monk who carried the woman against the rules, I enjoy how he simply saw a kindness that needed doing and did what he saw as the right thing, aside from the rules. We all need to be aware of each other as humans who might need help.
October 26, 2011 at 9:58 am
Fergiemoto
The last line in the story is a real eye-opener: “I left the woman at the rivers edge a long way back, why are you still carrying her?”
October 26, 2011 at 10:25 am
Old Jules
Them junior monks don’t ever get to be right. I burdens forward thinking one day to become an older monk. Nice story. Gracias, Jules
October 29, 2011 at 4:42 pm
Cynthia Pugliese
Leaving the past behind is hardest burden, but once shaken off, there is such a lightness that fills the soul and opens one up for new experiences and new paths to follow.
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February 7, 2012 at 3:54 am
likeheavn
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February 7, 2012 at 3:56 am
likeheavn
Wow! This post is great… I just wish I knew how to let go of my burdens. If someone could tell me that, but I don’t think I will like the answer (: