A man began to give large doses of cod-liver oil to his Doberman because he had been told that the stuff was good for dogs. Each day he would hold the head of the protesting dog between his knees, force its jaws open, and pour the liquid down its throat.
One day the dog broke loose and spilled the oil on the floor. Then to the man’s great surprise, it returned to lick the spoon. That is when he discovered that what the dog had been fighting was not the oil, but his method of administering it.
food for thought
wisdom comes from lesson’s learned
Serve your words to others softly, they are easier to swallow.
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zen in the garden
A priest was in charge of the garden within a famous Zen temple. He had been given the job because he loved the flowers, shrubs, and trees. Next to the temple there was another, smaller temple where there lived a very old Zen master.
One day, when the priest was expecting some special guests, he took extra care in tending to the garden. He pulled the weeds, trimmed the shrubs, combed the moss, and spent a long time meticulously raking up and carefully arranging all the dry autumn leaves. As he worked, the old master watched him with interest from across the wall that separated the temples.
When he had finished, the priest stood back to admire his work. “Isn’t it beautiful,” he called out to the old master.
“Yes,” replied the old man, “but there is something missing. Help me over this wall and I’ll put it right for you.”
The priest lifted the old fellow over and set him down. Slowly, the master walked to the tree near the center of the garden, grabbed it by the trunk, and shook it. Leaves showered down all over the garden.
“There,” said the old man.
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may your day be filled with…
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December 28, 2011 at 7:46 am
Jackie L. Robinson
Both great stories, my friend. Your first is one I have to work on when I feel strongly and wish to ‘get my point across.’ Softness is heard and felt much more deeply and openly than are force and blunt communication. I ‘get it.’ Can see that doberman so clearly….and in his master’s actions a reflection of myself at times.
Thanks for this….good reminder to begin my day. Love to you, my friend. xoxo
December 28, 2011 at 7:56 am
zendictive
two tales of wisdom…
the first, I really like, I have a feeling a lot of folks can take notes from it.
the second, makes me wonder if I should rake my yard? (grin) however, the grass may need a blanket for winter, however, needs the sunlight to grow. I am still perplexed by story number 2 (grin)
have a quality day ooxx (~_~) xxoo
December 28, 2011 at 9:49 am
Jackie L. Robinson
I understand the quandary, for sure. There’s something beautiful about letting Mother Nature operate in the way she ‘just does.’ And yet, we hear so much about what is ‘best’ for taking care of her. Not sure you can go wrong on this one….as the intention on either side is to honor her presence. I like #2…its simplicity and purity.
December 28, 2011 at 8:08 am
mysterycoach
When something strikes a nerve for me and rubs me the wrong way, I usually vent first outside of the situation, like on here in blog world, so I can get the strong emotion out of the way, center myself and then move forward in a way that the first story suggests. I haven’t perfected this either, however I am noticing that the more I practice this, the easier it becomes for me to implement.
It can be difficult to sift down into what a person really is saying when we all can fail to communicate well sometimes. Myself included 🙂
December 28, 2011 at 9:50 am
Jackie L. Robinson
I’ve been trying to practice ‘listening’ to the words not being said. You’re right MysteryCoach – it is a challenge, but one we can always continue to strive toward. Namaste’ friend. xo
December 28, 2011 at 11:31 am
zendictive
the quote; serve your words softly, it makes them easier to chew
is a great reminder, if you throw up an anger you’ll recieve anger in return, most have a mirror personality, reflecting what they are given… as in…
https://zendictive.wordpress.com/2011/10/24/reflections-of-self/
December 28, 2011 at 9:56 am
Tim Thinkauthor
Both are great. I’m getting that the second story shows us that it is imperfections that make something beautiful.
December 28, 2011 at 11:32 am
zendictive
I like this analogy (~_~) perfectly said!
December 28, 2011 at 10:30 am
zencherry
Wise words to help administer the medicines of life to ourselves as well. Lovely post. 🙂
December 28, 2011 at 11:32 am
zendictive
this is so zen like (~_~) zen cherry!
December 28, 2011 at 12:03 pm
rumpydog
The first story Jen has had to learn the hard way. As for the second….. I am reminded of a story I once read that said that we will rake and burn leaves and then buy man-made fertilizers to feed our gardens, when we could have let them be.
December 28, 2011 at 1:38 pm
willowdot21
Thank you may yours be too! xx
December 28, 2011 at 2:13 pm
zumpoems
Really like this as message to accept where appropriate and not to force one’s own expectations on reality.
December 28, 2011 at 10:55 pm
Linda Vernon
Thank you. And may your day be filled with love!
December 29, 2011 at 12:59 pm
granbee
Oh, Art, you are a man after my own heart! The God-given fallen leaves MUST be appreciated for themselves, right there in their chosen resting places.
January 28, 2012 at 11:17 pm
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